The Truth is being exposed.

Hi, Maybe this serves as a tidbit of a bittid breather!

Alan took his Dad to the home...Guess what? He has been restricted ACCESS to visit his Dad....Can you believe it? The Dad was a) furious for having to go to the home; and when he saw the out of town sibling, he was angered (went ballistic, is more like it); and Alan had to calm him down and b) when the Dad found out that his other son, Alan, had been refused access, he was livid. Once again, Alan had to soothe his Dad's anger.

Alan was able to get his Dad to the 'institution' peacefuly, and suggested that 'Dad, I will see you everyday'. Well, you can imagine how much more upset the Dad became, when he heard / saw that his son, Alan was denied visitation rights to him. (for 5 days; now it has been increased to 10 days...hmmmm.just around the 'court time! interesting, isn't it?) The 'Head' Administrator said, 'oh well, this is the norm'. Well I beg to differ HUGELY - it is NOT the norm...Yes, I can appreciate getting used to a 'transition' / whatever; BUT, being RESTRICTED???? Alan has since been in touch with various 'professionals and highly regarded citizens' (who are intelligently in the loop) and 'they' are thinking this is 'insane'. Personally, I feel the siblings; the oldest one for sure, SHOULD BE COMMITTED....Yes, I am venting a tid; but this is backwards.....And now, as I type, these questionnable siblings are suggesting further 'B.S.' It is all to suit their agenda; and to take Alan 'away' from the focus of doing the 'right thing'. And that is, honouring his Mum's wishes and his Dad's; and what is also genuinely in his heart(mine too, for that matter).

I suggested yesterday to Alan that perhaps the siblings that have children should pay major attention to this....perhaps their own children will enslave them to this type of abhorent treatment, AND SUBJECT THEM TO AN INSTITUTION, WHERE THEIR RIGHTS ARE IGNORED. Would they like that? I think not. However, in this situation, the shoe does fit, should the children of the siblings 'dump them in a home' down the road. Then they might have some empathy and a serious rethink; as in OOOOOOOOPS.

Excuse me for this, but what I have seen, is WRONG and SPIRITUALLY NOT RIGHT. The siblings are doing 'things' for the wrong reasons. They have allowed their hate, jealousy, whatever it is, towards Alan, to get in the way of making the best heartfelt quality of life decisions for their Dad.

We think that this upcoming case in court will set a precedent to all those - ie seniors who have been abused by their own flesh and blood; and the system, as it currently stands in the care of the elderly. New just laws are needed to improve the QUALITY OF LIFE for senior citizens.

Tidbit - Keep having the Faith that He will provide the just and right solutions.

Bittid - Do not allow the evil one to take away your joy and your calm. Keep on trekking.

God Bless.