Justice will be served!

Good Afternoon or whatever the applicable greeting is to you, in your part of the world.

Well, in a nutshell, the sibling saga is still ongoing. The behaviour of the siblings has been glaringly appalling; even today! The oldest sibling 'apologized' to Alan that she had excluded him from her message at the Memorial Church Service (mentioned in Feb 25th post). Well, ahem, many witnesses beg to differ; it was very obvious in her tone of voice and mean manner, what her malicious and vindicative intent was / is towards Alan. However, it gravely backfired on the sibling; as will be indicated in the Supreme Court, within the next few weeks. Even when she spoke at the Service, she spoke with such 'pursed' lips and did not appear to be genuine to many who heard her. That was volunteered information / feedback we received from a number of those present at the Service. They came up to us; and could not believe what they heard! As a bit of tid, Alan and I believe that her lawyer suggested strongly to her, that she make a tid of a bit apology. Hmmmmmmmm. Interestingly enough, the Church always 'tapes' the Memorial Services; we never knew that....so, we will have her icy voice as evidence, on tape.

The Dad is devasted because he is going to an old age home (at least for the time being). The siblings are not considering what is best for their Dad; and they are going by a 'piece of paper'; re: their POA status for the Dad. Unfortunately, that 'representative agreement' is in place for now; however, Alan has registered a Committee Application in the Supreme Court; and that will hold weight at the end of the day. That being said, Alan will then continue to abide by his Mum's wishes, as well as respecting his Dad's sentiments. Who cares if the Dad does not remember what day it is? He still has feelings...We are not questionning the 24/7 care; he needs that - no dispute; it is how it is being done; and without regard. And, the timing -so soon after his wife's passing etc. - Like what is the rush? Perhaps business as per usual; as the 'out of town' sibling is returning to his home at the end of the week. Hmmmmmm.

Alan has a viable plan for him; whereby, he would receive 24/7 PERSONAL care; should he reside in our old apartment. He would not just be isolated in one room. He would be given quality full time care; and we feel that he would have a much better quality of life; and probably would live longer too! He would also be more up to date on 'things'; because he will be in constant care; rather than just dumped into a home and left there to die. I understand also, that in these various homes, there are staffing problems; particularly at night; so at least he would be provided with consistent care. We have professional support as evidence; in that 24/7 personal home care is by far the better scenario. The case may set a precedent for the future care of senior citizens.

Tidbit - Do what you know is right in your heart. Have Him Guide you on a Righteous path.

Bittid - Take each day as it comes; and make the best of it. We know that Justice will be served in the next short while. He is The Way, The Truth, and The Light.

Bye for now. God Bless.