Sibling Saga

Good Morning, or whatever is the applicable greeting to you, in your part of the world!

Well, for starters, it is a beautiful sunny morning! Blue sky abounding everywhere; admist 36 degrees F. A tid chilly; but refreshing, nonetheless.

Was debating whether I would write a bit more or not, on the 'sibling saga'; because what has been taking place is just 'unreal'. This is most definitely, a 'spiritual battle' happening. A dear friend who faithfully reads my blog, helped validate my questionning thought; she was 'dying' to know what happened with the unexpected visit from the 'out of town' sibling. She then went on to say that what has been 'occuring', is 'surreal'; so many thanks my good friend, you have given me a tidbit of courage to continue with this tale. However, I will not go into all the bittidz details; because some of them are just too 'nitty gritty' and sinister. Perhaps, when things are said and done, I may add a tidbitz in that regard; that is when Justice is done. Put it this way, you would most likely, not believe me, with what is presently unravelling, because it is 'unreal'.

The bittid visit with the sibling went okay. As mentioned, I had to leave the room. Very hard to sit with someone, who is not on your side; ie of Truth. However, I did return to the 'fray'; and was 'calm' and 'cordial'. There are times, when you must 'know your enemy'; and go into 'their camp'.

Unfortunately, Alan and I, and various integrity driven professionals, are 'skeptical & suspicious' of the erratic behaviour that has been exhibited thus far. In other words, it is not just Alan and myself, thinking this way. Why yesterday, the 2 'in town' siblings, called the police because they were not being 'allowed' in. That being said, 'they' (one of them in particular; and when asked, lied blatantly)intimidated the 'heck' out of the caregivers. Anyway, Alan came out 'smelling like a rose'; a)he had done nothing wrong; and b) he turned the tables on the siblings; and the police left scratching their heads...like the 2 siblings are totally totally off base; and disregarding all the wishes of both the Mum and the medical people. "Wing wang' or "pyscho" comes to my mind. They are quite unbalanced; and once again, by their 'words, deeds, and actions', they have convicted themselves.

Plus the 'surprise' visit of the 'out of town' sibling (who said to Alan, that Alan would be advised of flight arrivals etc) was there; so Alan had to place his trust in that sibling; - to make sure eveything, was 'kosher'. And, after that visit, the sibling came up to see the Dad, (at Alan's suggestion) who, as you know, is staying with us. I will add a bittidical: the oldest sibling (the one who is not truthful) frightened the 'living' you know what out of the 24/7 help. HOWEVER, IT HAS BEEN NOTATED IN THE NOTES...So the sibling(s) is / are exposing themselves. All I can say is a big "Thank you" to Him.

Tidbit - I am leaving my Trust in Him to Work out everything to the common GOOD, and to put things to right.

Bittid - "LOVE one another, as I have LOVED you". Such a true message. What we are experiencing is the total tidbitical oppposite. The 2 'in town' siblings have displayed jealousy, anger, and HATE; and the 'out of town' sibling appears to have added to the 'confusion' and is in collusion with 'them'. Once again, 'they' are ensnaring themselves in their own 'web of deceit' etc. He can not be fooled; and, I "Praise Him in All Things".

God Bless.

P.S. The oldest of the 3 nephews, (mentioned in yesterday's post), confirmed with Alan that he wants nothing to do with the 2 'in town' siblings; and yesterday, when he wanted to see his "Grandma'; and heard his mum and aunt were there, he said, 'Forget it, I do not want to be anywhere near them' - or sentiments to that effect. So, GOOD on him!

P.P.S. The 'husband' of the the mum (not sure whether they are 'estranged' or what the current situation is)just called Alan; and thanked him for treating his sons 'like men'. Alan's reply was, "I had to". Afterall, these nephews are 'young men'; not juveniles. Although, interestingly enough, it would appear that the mum and the aunt are behaving as if they are juveniles.