"Can't win, for losing"

I am discovering that blogs are great! It is, indeed, an interesting forum where people can genuinely express their thoughts, their views, their feelings, the whole 9 yards!

I am a new blogger; however, various "tidbits" keep popping into my mind - like kernels of popcorn! Fun, happy kernels; as well as the more serious ones, with the thought to always uplift others.

Over the last several months, I have experienced a deep sadness and a tragic loss; hidden agendas, the works. However, I am not saying "poor me" (or "poor us").

Aux contraire! I am willing to enlighten others by sharing various "tidbits" be it in blog poem format, or by writing articles (tidbitcles); so that there may be special lessons learned by each and every one of us.

Too many people do not take a stand at the time when they should. When it goes on for long periods of time, well? hmmmmmmm. Not the best scenario, is it? hmmmmm.

Here is a blog poem with a few tids of bit or grit.

Can't win, for losing;
No matter how hard you try!
They continue with their "hidden" abusing,
Totally deaf to our reconciliating cry.

No more, are we pliable putty in their hands;
For them to mistreat us as they wish!
As if we are just merely grains of sands,
To be tossed scantily into a dog's dish.

We will leave an open door, with no nail;
It is up to them, what sincere ammends they make!
We pray for respect and integrity to prevail,
And also for a major attitude retake.

They may think they have won,
Alas, it is they, for now, who have also lost!
Things have been slithered over, one by one;
And now, it is at an ultimate cost.

I hope that this reaches "some ears," as well as being a meaningful message; to all those, who care enough to read this blog. I am blogging our experiences; and to reiterate, that we have done our utmost.

The "air of entitlement" and the mean spiritness, displayed thus far, needs to have a reflective rethink and a readjustment of behaviour.

Until there is a genuine acknowledgement and apology made; we must let it go.

And, to share a TIDBIT, "If you love someone, let them go. If they come back, they are yours. If they don't, they never were".