Friday 28 December 2007

Feliz Navidad & Beautiful Bougenvelia!



Hi! It has been awhile! Manana!

We had a great time; we returned home, without incident in the wee tidbitz hours of the 23rd December. You know, there really is no place like home! We hated to leave Zihua; but once on the plane, could hardly wait to return home! We had to go through the "Hub" in Huston, Texas. Huge airport! We had a 3.5 hr stopover, so we went to an airport restaurant (a franchise; very similar to a White Spot theme) called "Ruby's" -the best thick chocolate milkshake I have ever had! And the HUGE hamburgers were also, a gourmet delight! We had temperatures of 88 degrees F to 108 degrees F and upon our return, came back to the freezing cold! Brrrrrrrr. Imagine as in 'tiptoeing through the tulips', and wearing sandals instead, to the 'welcome home' snow! Blog about weather extremes; some 70 to 80 degrees difference!

We reconnected with our Mexican friends, made some new amigos; and we are looking forward to spending some time there each year. We have come across a unique endeavour; and all being well, we are hoping to spend 4 to 6 mos per year in our beloved Zihua. We love the 'seasons' where we reside; however, during the dreary winter months, we are thinking - Zihua! We will learn how to speak Spanish! It is such a beautiful and romantic language; and, we love the people!
We went on a couple of tours, walked on the beaches, were entertained at a few "Happy Hours", and appreciated the Mexican restaurants, In a bittidz, really enjoyed ourselves. We were also invited for dinner at our Mexican friends; apparently, it is considered an honour to be invited to a Mexican home. Wonderful food; exceptional company! Another highlight, was that we released baby turtles from our hands, to the ocean at dusk; that was an awesome experience!

Since we have been home, we have been caring for Alan's parents. We left them in good hands. We are now in the process of acquiring some extra help for them; because Alan can not do it all himself.

We had a good Christmas; a quiet and a reflective one. I 'decorated' our abode on the 24th, with what Christmas 'stuff' I could find / salvage from our overly swamped 'groaning' garage; and our living room/dining room is a very 'Christmasy' cosy spot. (if I blog a tid of a bit myself! LOL!) We enjoyed seeing my son for Christmas breakfast; and Alan's Dad was with us for Christmas dinner. Alan's Mum was happy to just rest in her bed; as she was unable to be with us; save in spirit. My son gave us a much needed and appreciated digital camera for Christmas!!! So, once we read and master the tiny tidbitcal print, you will see some wonderful bittidical blog photos! LOL! We were also invited to stay down in Mexico for this Christmas, but thinking of family, we thought it best to come home. Plus our puppy, Blue was tugging strongly at our heartstrings. To that end, we put together our Christmas Breakfast and our Christmas Dinner, for all those who wished to attend.

We have been invited to spend a Christmas 'Mexican Eve' etc. next year with some friends in L.A.; so we may consider their kind and unique invitation. It is a bit of a tid matter, whether we fly from Zihua to them, or on route to Zihua. Or, we may have already been to Zihua, then fly home for Christmas, and then back again to Zihua. When we "settle" in Zihua, we will have our doggie with us. A lot can happen in a year (let alone a day!); so we will keep all our options open; including where and with whom, we celebrate Christmas with. Eventhough, we truly wish to spend time with our loved family members. They have not always been receptive to this. So, as of this moment / Christmas, Alan and I have decided / reflected, that we will just simply enjoy our lives - with each other! We have come to the conclusion, that we only wish to have genuine relationships with those who wish us to be a part of their lives.

"After The Kids Have Gone", is a wonderful book, written by Lorene Wingard, that is a story about a woman who 'fell in love' with Zihua. She has enjoyed a 'rich' Mexican life and she has introduced her family and friends to that history/culture. Pretty awesome, I think!

Tidbit - Live each day; one at a time. It is easier to do that, with daily practice. Things that are not pleasant etc, can be handled more positively when you calmly endeavour to do just that, day by day. If any of you are experiencing rough or tragic moments, let it go. The past is gone; and the future is promised to no one. It is the present that matters. Some of you know of what I write; some of you may not; but that is okay. Just do your best to live one day at a time. It works (after practice).

Bittid - Be thankful for your Blessings; and 'keep it simple'. Christmas (in Celebration of Christ's Birth) can both be a happy and a sad time of year for many people. Being genuinely compassionate and appreciative of all things is best. Praise Him in All Things. Have the Faith, that He will Provide your daily needs.

Hope you all had a Merry Christmas; and here is wishing you all the best for 2008!

Am goimg to go and read the directions on how to use our camera; so that ultimately, you will be able to see our 'authentic pictures!'; not just neat photo images. that I have 'borrowed' from "Google" images.

Adios for now; and God Bless.

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